Wednesday, January 25, 2017

#2: changing the HOW, not the WHAT.

Then, you can decide if you want to change the what.

By the time someone realizes they're tired or they're "stuck," or they just don't want to struggle anymore, it's natural and normal to think there's no other option than to just run away. But "running away" is just your mind being disempowered and lazy.

But the only way to make true and lasting change is to start from the inside and work your way out. Then, if "leaving" is still the best course to take, you do it with energy, purpose, and clarity. And if you create something new, it has a much bigger chance of succeeding!

Start with your intention. "What do I want? What am I seeking?" You may have to clear some clutter; the stuff you've allowed to just creep into your environment and your schedule. The stuff that drains you.

Take your time; you may feel impatient. Or you might experience some grief. You might want to just "run away" rather than change your mindsets.

All of this is normal.

The worst thing you can do is tell yourself, "This won't work for me. I'm too far gone." That is simply lazy thinking, and it is untrue. You have to let go of what drains you, to dream huge dreams - but do not give up on yourself and your life.

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